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“Why is he wearing leggings? Bit gay isn’t it? You wouldnt catch my boy wearing some of those.”
I work in a home and I deal with my patient’s parent. His father and I always now and then talk about sexuality. Situations and such and I always thought he was okay with people with different sexual orientations. One day I planned on telling him I, myself, is a lesbian. Not anymore.
My patient’s father:: “You wouldn’t believe this bitch of a lady. I had to go back to fix her AC and introduce me to her “wife”.”
Me:: “Okay, what happened.” (Making his son’s dinner)
Him:: “It was weird. I don’t know. Whatever, it’s her decision to be with a women, but why introduce me to your “wife”. What the fuck, haha, Well, they aren’t married. So, her girlfriend.” (In a nasty attitude)
Me:: “Okay, I meant what happened to her AC. Did you fix it?”
Male Friend:: So would you ever go out with [other male friend]?
Me:: I'm a lesbian.
Male Friend:: Really? I heard you were bi.
Me:: No, I'm not.
Male Friend:: No man, you totally are. Besides, [other male friend] is practically a girl.
Made me feel powerless to define my own identity, and infuriated that my friend thought it was okay to use my gender to insult my other friend.
“HEY! I can eat that pussy way better than your girlfriend!”